dear sam .. i saw ur comments and i will response to it as a post , hope its ok ?

see sam .. i thought u got the point when u started ur "comment " and i really thought u had it  in the first 10 - 13 lines .. but after that i think u drifted away from the subject to a personal matter or let me put it right ( not what i was trying to prove here ) how ??? 

i wasnt talking about the people who went through the relationship itself who actually love each other who have problems  .. i was talking about how girls are tricky and manipulate guys .. if u are saying that girls have a jealousy part in their blood ( i will be glad,  not sad about it , thats mean she do loves u ) so thats not the issue here ( what am talking abt ) 

i might take this as another issue i will talk about it , called  TRUST 

see what u dont have here is trust between the girl and the guy ... in order to create that "trust" thats up to u managing the relationship.. see this point is weird ,why ???

because to gain this trust u have fulfil her need .. show her that u love her always and u will never leave her ... but again : as i mentioned in my previous posts thats a reason to make her RUN AWAY .. how ?  the lovely sentence that i mentioned in my previous posts -which btw i adore - 

 ( AM NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP YET )  

read my previous post carefully and u will know what am talking about 

so in order to get her to trust u .. u have to loose ur trust in her .

to girls : ( now do u see why guys PLAY FUCKING GAMES ) ?

 easy answer : to DEFEAT  YOURS . 

why wont u live a normal life with no manipulation ?

the only reason why guys start games is to get u girls ... when the guy come to U honestly , what do u say? ( HE IS SUCH A DORK)  why dork ? because he think am that easy . ( damn!! thats ruff  ) 

wow that easy .. so who likes games guys or girls ? .. 

and after the guy pull a game on u .. u will set says ( oh god he fooled me , he manipulate me , he tricked me )  

GOD .. girl , when will u ever stop this ballshit  . 

i hope u realized my point here sam .

another thing is tough and hard to admit ( but u were wrong ) in this part :

u said GIRLS looking  for a gentlemen and nice person and cute .. i dont think girls knows what they r looking for honestly ... they r lost .. and they drive guys with them to the " lost world "

about guys and thats the hard thing to admit ( u said guys looking for girls who do understand us ) 

EVERY GIRL IN THE WORLD UNDERSTAND US .. ( ITS NOT HARD THO ) 

they do understand us because we r not complicated we r simple .. really simple 

so what guys realy want from girls , or what they looking for in them to build a relation ??? 

HONESTY , HONESTY , HONESTY 

AND 

the 3 basics need 

1 . to be a respected women , dont play around and respect her guy 

2 . cute or beautiful ( or atleast in his eye ) - guys have different vision - 

3 . be his mind when he think .. share his thoughts from once or a while . 

  

so again thats when i dont agree with u ..  

u said there is some things are right and some things are wrong in my previous post 

I WILL BE GLAD IF U POINT IT OUT to discuss it . 

thanks for the LONG ASS COMMENT mate .

who are more loyal girls or guys ?

i will take it from one prospective , one only ...

girl , did u ever been in a situation,  a guy call u all the time just to get ur attention ?

and he keep calling .. but u find it nice, so u stay on the phone with him for a while .. and the thing that u knows that ( this guy is interested in u ) .. obviously , no doubt .. why he call then ? dah .. but u chose to continue with him even when u r NOT interested .. ( BIG ASS QUESTION MARK ) WHY ????
let me tell u why .. first, most of the girls have this lovely answer for everything ( I DONT WANNA HURT HIM ) ... we both knows its BALLSHIT , at the first few calls i dont think that guy will jump of a bridge for hearing that u r NOT interested .. second,  the real answer is :

he is SAFE .. i can hang out with him untill i find the ONE .. if i dont , ....... i'll stay with him .. WOW
he is a puppy ... no no .. we r puppies ( atleast we r cute then )

let me ask a small tiny question .. if u do find the one , what the hell r u gonna do ?
at first u said u I dont wanna hurt him when the relation was still at the beginning .. because it was so hard for u ,and he is so cute ( of course he is a puppy ) ..

i just wanna see the way u think about committing such a delima .. i just wanna feel how exaclly u fall in a sleep at night ( i bet its easy as a baby)   .... ohh wait thats right , i herd this rumours says man dont have feeling , cold blood , demons , men from MARS ( hehe , thats a good one ) and all the fucked up theories that women believe in ( such a shame )

she eventually dumb him ..kill him emotionally .. BREAK    HIS    HEART ...

another question .. do man think that way " a safe girl " ?
easy answer NO THEY DONT ..

WHY ? ( i bet ppl wondering )
because men dont have in their believe such a thing call " a safe girl " .. they know their no such a thing call safe girl .. if they do why the hell men get into trouble trying to impress girls ?? .. why they trying hard to make it work in the beginning ??  if they tried from the beginning to make it work and then put them as a safe girl later then it doesnt make any sense .. thats fucking stupid .

so who is more loyal .. i can bet for a 1000 $ that women will answer and says ( WOMEN ) ..

and i got a good one here two ... listen to this

a girl start a relation with a guy because she feel bored and have nuthing to do ..
what happened is this  .. she had a long vacation from work she was staying home with her parents ,literally nuthin to do .. what she did is start talking to a guy was a friend ( fair enough ) for almost a month telling him what she likes and he is telling her what he likes and the whole time they been talking they were flirting with each other around and they r practically talking every day  ..
a month finished they had the talk .. they defined the relation as a COUPLE ( niceeee )
they got serious and they start missing each other deeply and GIVING PROMISES THAT THEY WILL NEVER LEAVE EACH OTHER both of them  ( big step , wow )  .. i swear if saw them u will give the devil a second chance ...

another month begin with the love birds goin smoothly (they even told their parents and family)
then she finished her vacation ..
she returned to her jop .. ( her jop have opportunities to travel around the world but not at the moment )

and this part i bet all guys know what am talking abt .. ;)
calling her and she never answer .. send her messges never been replied ( or atleast late replies )

the disappearance of love words , missing words , sweety , babe , huny .. and the guy still say it
whenever she is online ( facebook, messenger.. etc ) she is ignoring him ( and yet she spend a lot of time online )

what happened ?? what went wrong ?? did the guy do somthing wrong .. did she find out somthing on him that he deserved to be treated like this ... ?? WHY ?

easy answer .. I WAS BORED U MADE MY DAYS AND ... here the sentence that i always like from girls I THINK WE RUSHED THROUGH THIS RELATION ..

WOW , GIRLS R MEAN .. i used to expected it from guys .. but not TO that level .. not after expressing the feeling that way .. not after telling the family .. not after risking AND destroying the friendship that was btween them before .
what do u expect that he will come running saying ..HEY lets be friends then .. that he will forget all that ever happened ... let me make it AS EASY AS I CAN ( i really dont think so ) even if the guy have a law self steam he wont do it ..

again who is more loyal ?? ...  WOMEN again ???

How my life turn to a different level ?

in this world ( i believed women and men should have the same chances in life ) and i still do

see to be fair lets talk about it from a different prospective : relationships ( sound like fun ) 

women claims that guys r cold blood ( they dont have feeling ) .. well, one of the women that i met prove that wrong ( she really broke my heart to several pieces ) 

and the funny thing i always supported women against guys .. never tried to break a woman heart before and i'll never do .. but yet , think abt it guys seem cold blood because they keep their feeling inside to seems stronger 

BUT do trust me in that ( we r crying from inside and its worse ) its more painful , realy hard to get over it .. and 90 % of non-working relationships GUYS take longer than girls to get over it .. ( tip ) its true 

lets start with a brief conversation ( a girl wrote this in one the websites ) and it was interesting .. 

" WHERE IS THIS SOMEONE?..Someone smile at me so sweetly for no reason.Hearing him say 'you look beautiful in whatever you wear,someone shares w/me an umbrella under the cold rain,hear him say' I've fallen in love w/you more than I planned and now I know for sure there is no way I'll ever let you go.Someone who will never let me go no matter how hard the situation is.Someone who want to kiss my lips everyday,lift and hug me when I'm jealous,patiently keep silent when I'm mad,fix my hair just to see my face,who want to have lunch w/my family,someone who share his drinks w/me,who squiz my hand together when i squiz his,someone who'll cut work just to have date w/me,someone who plans and imagine his future w/me years from now.A man who can say i love you in front of many people,who can see me cute even I'm in ugliest,who can show me to his parents saying' mom/dad meet my princess',who can hold my hand in front of his friend and could proudly say' guys she is my girl,my life and my everything'.  "

is that  what all girls asking ???  let me answer ( yes ) of course  ... lets see what comes next ..

WHAT SURPRISE ME ? 

girls always asking for those things but never mean it .. whenever guys do those stuff they just run away ( thats a delima ) 

what do u want then ? 

a guy offer everything to u .. fuck , he will be ur slave .. and then what .. u just walk away saying sum ballshit abt am not ready yet to be in a relation .. then why the hell ur asking for all the above .. 

or like , i wanna find an honest man .. ( there r pleny of them .. but no , remember u r not ready for honest yet ) 

they just have this feeling that men cant get hurt ( well ,SURPRISE they do ) ..

when u r not ready from the beginning stop fucking playing with the man heart .. tell him ur not ready .. not drive him all the way to a level he just Guarantee U in his life and suddenly ( hey am sorry am not ready for commitment ) what about all the yapi yapi talk .. ITS JUST BALLSHIT  .. GET IT DUMASS 

GIRLS STOP HURTING 

( another tip for u guys ) women lie more often than guys ( but u will never know the truth ) 

thats basecilly why guys play games and wont offer the girl what she realy asking for .. because the result of giving her what she asking IS THIS ( a broken heart )