i will take it from one prospective , one only ...
girl , did u ever been in a situation, a guy call u all the time just to get ur attention ?
and he keep calling .. but u find it nice, so u stay on the phone with him for a while .. and the thing that u knows that ( this guy is interested in u ) .. obviously , no doubt .. why he call then ? dah .. but u chose to continue with him even when u r NOT interested .. ( BIG ASS QUESTION MARK ) WHY ????
let me tell u why .. first, most of the girls have this lovely answer for everything ( I DONT WANNA HURT HIM ) ... we both knows its BALLSHIT , at the first few calls i dont think that guy will jump of a bridge for hearing that u r NOT interested .. second, the real answer is :
he is SAFE .. i can hang out with him untill i find the ONE .. if i dont , ....... i'll stay with him .. WOW
he is a puppy ... no no .. we r puppies ( atleast we r cute then )
let me ask a small tiny question .. if u do find the one , what the hell r u gonna do ?
at first u said u I dont wanna hurt him when the relation was still at the beginning .. because it was so hard for u ,and he is so cute ( of course he is a puppy ) ..
i just wanna see the way u think about committing such a delima .. i just wanna feel how exaclly u fall in a sleep at night ( i bet its easy as a baby) .... ohh wait thats right , i herd this rumours says man dont have feeling , cold blood , demons , men from MARS ( hehe , thats a good one ) and all the fucked up theories that women believe in ( such a shame )
she eventually dumb him ..kill him emotionally .. BREAK HIS HEART ...
another question .. do man think that way " a safe girl " ?
easy answer NO THEY DONT ..
WHY ? ( i bet ppl wondering )
because men dont have in their believe such a thing call " a safe girl " .. they know their no such a thing call safe girl .. if they do why the hell men get into trouble trying to impress girls ?? .. why they trying hard to make it work in the beginning ?? if they tried from the beginning to make it work and then put them as a safe girl later then it doesnt make any sense .. thats fucking stupid .
so who is more loyal .. i can bet for a 1000 $ that women will answer and says ( WOMEN ) ..
and i got a good one here two ... listen to this
a girl start a relation with a guy because she feel bored and have nuthing to do ..
what happened is this .. she had a long vacation from work she was staying home with her parents ,literally nuthin to do .. what she did is start talking to a guy was a friend ( fair enough ) for almost a month telling him what she likes and he is telling her what he likes and the whole time they been talking they were flirting with each other around and they r practically talking every day ..
a month finished they had the talk .. they defined the relation as a COUPLE ( niceeee )
they got serious and they start missing each other deeply and GIVING PROMISES THAT THEY WILL NEVER LEAVE EACH OTHER both of them ( big step , wow ) .. i swear if saw them u will give the devil a second chance ...
another month begin with the love birds goin smoothly (they even told their parents and family)
then she finished her vacation ..
she returned to her jop .. ( her jop have opportunities to travel around the world but not at the moment )
and this part i bet all guys know what am talking abt .. ;)
calling her and she never answer .. send her messges never been replied ( or atleast late replies )
the disappearance of love words , missing words , sweety , babe , huny .. and the guy still say it
whenever she is online ( facebook, messenger.. etc ) she is ignoring him ( and yet she spend a lot of time online )
what happened ?? what went wrong ?? did the guy do somthing wrong .. did she find out somthing on him that he deserved to be treated like this ... ?? WHY ?
easy answer .. I WAS BORED U MADE MY DAYS AND ... here the sentence that i always like from girls I THINK WE RUSHED THROUGH THIS RELATION ..
WOW , GIRLS R MEAN .. i used to expected it from guys .. but not TO that level .. not after expressing the feeling that way .. not after telling the family .. not after risking AND destroying the friendship that was btween them before .
what do u expect that he will come running saying ..HEY lets be friends then .. that he will forget all that ever happened ... let me make it AS EASY AS I CAN ( i really dont think so ) even if the guy have a law self steam he wont do it ..
again who is more loyal ?? ... WOMEN again ???
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well emm, things R not often like that: men R royal? .. women R?, I believe there's no such specification, it depends on what we're really like .. the way we've been raised .. its abt to give as much as we take .. do NOT expect something to stay immutable because some day it will, I believe immutable is mutable (and viceversa) if we added the dimension of time!
Hey there,
The thing is about girls mate,
1- They are smart but never as nearly as they think they are.
2- drama queens.
let me explain more by giving causes that happens all the time and examples for every thinker to think wisely more!.
girls start relationships as you said in a way that they just feel bored and they want to have some kind of relationship with some one who is stupid enough to waste his money over the phone or more and they dump him in the end.
other type, not because of the bored thing but they have something else called rebounding, she broke up with some one and wants some one else to fell up for her the space and once she feels she started to care about him and have forgotten the other person, she dumps him.
other type, which is the type that got me so long to understand, which is the type that lie to them selves and believe that lie and give you the reaction, which makes the man confused and have a real hard time to understand what was all that about!
example, she is having a dinner with the boyfriend, a girl passed by and the man move his head up and look as a normal look to that girl and looked back to his food or the even the spoon that it's going his moth and about to eat.
the girlfriend, she tells her self, hey he didn't look at me, he looked at his food and the other girl, his food for his stomach and the girl? hmmm, he likes her, how come he said he loves me? he does not love me! he is playing me! he have been with me for over than a year! and doing all this?
it was a look a normal look, he saw a shadow he moved his head to see what it is, turns out its a girl he looked back to his food! now she doesn't trust him, she calls him every minutes of the day to ask him what are you doing? and text him every 5 minutes even though, she knows for a fact that he is working!! or in his class trying to focus on what is his lecture talking about! because he knows when he get back home, he cant sleep he have to meet her and once he does, he have a lot of explanations to do on why did he get mad on her when she called him to say what are you doing? and she makes sure that when she asked, she did it really nicely and sweetly, and he does not have the right to be mad her, but since he is, then he was not in the class or doing his work! he was having a fair with another girl!.
he try to make it work, he loves her and he might already have the ring to marry her, but she knew how to screw it up.
that was just an example.
There are a facts that you girl should be looking for, and there are lies,
when some one tells the man, i saw your girlfriend was with another man in the club last Friday, he goes back to his girl and ask her, were you in the club last Friday, if she says no, then no it is. and the subject closed and end of story.
but when a girl tell her girlfriend i saw your man in a club last Friday, she wont say nothing and she will start doing drama and showing some reactions.
since the man loves her, and he does not know what is happening, and he can see something is wrong. He start asking questions, what's wrong dear, love, baby. or whatever he calls her. she say nothing. and she keep acting crazy more and more.
in fact how about this, some one i know have been with a girl for one and half year. a man woke up to his girlfriend at work, the man is fat, ugly big mama with poops though, and he told her, your boyfriend is gay!
she came and broke up with her boyfriend with no question and no answers. and she believed it. The boyfriend came to me and he said, she broke up with me and all what she said, i cant look at your face and shame on you. and she left. I did a pack round check and i found out what happened, what that person told her and how he looks like!
These are real stories i know it personally.
The thing is about relationship that a girl never understand, that she is with a man and she have to have respect for him, she have to give him his comfort because once she does the man will give her his heart with out even feeling it and he cant make a single step back but keeping foreword .
once something happens they put the blame on the man, even when they sleep with some one else, they have an excuse and they say, you were absent! not latterly but in there own long talk way, in the end the man will know what was the conclusion of what she said and that would be. his mistake, he was absent.
here is the other case, a man who loves his girlfriend and he is attracted to her like crazy! they make love every day few times, and every thing is working out great until the day that HE LOOKED AT ANOTHER GIRL BY MISTAKE WHILE HE WAS EATING!!
he goes back home with her and they still make love as nothing happens, because nothing happens! but not according to her!.
she will starts acting crazy and disrespect him and drive him crazy with the phone calls and the messages. Not enough but she looks for his friends and ask them weird questions.
He get annoyed and distrube and he looks at his future and for all what he knows if this is the way she become then it is worse in the future. i cant continue with this, he breaks up with her.
here is what really happening while the time there were having a relationship in there heads.
why is always opened for more sexual contact? maybe she needs it this much or maybe she sees me and she wants to share everything with me and she cant have enough of me because she loves me!
poor him, because this is what was in here head!
after the first time, let me seduce him some more so i can get a relationship with him, after few months hey, he cant have enough of me and i have feelings for him, if i don't give him all this sexual contact he will find some one else.
so She kills him with it. she does not let him sleep even when he is really tired and he have to sleep to wake up early morning for college or work!
when he broke up with her, she thought he did because she was not good enough for him! she should of gave him more sexual contact! so he doesn't look for some one else. and not matter how many millions of people they tell her that he never broke up with you because of anything more than he wanted his peace!!
let me close this book here and look at the same subject from a different angle,
a Question to think about,
This is after a first date.
when a girl telling a girl about a man, what do they say?
and when a man talking to another man about a girl what do they say?
i am not going to take the low steam people in here, they are not the right people to measure this sensitive questions with.
the girl would say, he was nice, gentlemen and kinda cute.
the man, would say about her, she can really understand me!
the girl was looking for gentlemen and a nice person and cute. and the man was looking for some one who can understand him to make his life easier.
and when these two people find each other they may make it!
for immature girls, please if you don't know what love is try to learn by experience it and don't try to love by force you will never know what love is, you will make others suffer with you and you will never grow up mentally!.
the thing is i can write until tomorrow morning, but i guess i might be wasting my time, if some one really knows about relationships and wants to share informations or make more discustions please contact me.
if some one does not know and he or she might think that i can be able to change something in his/her life and understand more about relationships, please. contact me.
MOE, you are right about some things, and wrong about some, but i guess in the end. we are just learning!
Cheers mate!
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